You Cannot Force Reunion

And furthermore, when you try, you are never farther from that desired state.

There are countless awakened twins on this planet right now and every notion under heaven as to why we are all separated. The why will make you crazy, lay it down. Fact is you cannot force reunion. You cannot think, well if only I could get this other person to understand about the twin flames, my twin knew, agreed, referred to me as his twin... and left anyway.

The twin flame comes into our lives to wake us up to god, to our spirituality, to bring us a sense of purpose that is bigger than we had before. If we let it, it will do all these things and it will transform us. What we cannot do, however, is
sit and wait, pushing and pushing, trying to get the other person "on board."

I know many teachers out there say this journey is about self love, and there is definitely a strong cord of that in there. If you pay attention to your twin relationship, it is mirroring your rougher edges, begging you to let them be healed by love, but not by the love of your partner, by your own love.

That being said, I still say the biggest lesson we are all asked to learn here is surrender.

Surrender to that which is greater than ourselves.

Perhaps it's god for you, perhaps it's simply your higher self, but whatever it is that you recognize as a higher power, that is what we must surrender to. Once we learn that, once we learn to be guided by our intuitive soul connection, the entire world rushes in and we are met with more truth, enlightenment, possibilities, and yes, even love, than we ever knew possible.

I say often that it is as if all twins are hitting the same wall and being thrown back. What if this wall is surrender? And what if what is on the other side, isn't reunion, but our purpose here within this life?

I had a dream once of a battlefield and it was all twin flames, and I ask the angel with me what was happening, he said they are being tested, because only the most pure can move into the higher realms.

I know too many who will not let go of this notion of this other person. This journey is simply more than a romantic partnership, or even a coming together with your literal other half, and you can surrender to that and have hope, or you can refuse and stay stuck in this place where you are not whole, you are weak and small, in pain every day.

I feel for as long as we chase this notion that we have no life outside of reunion, we are damning ourselves. I do not believe in a cruel god and to design us in such a way that the romantic love we desire so deeply would be out of reach or solely in another's hands, that's a design flaw. The god I know doesn't make mistakes. His ways are not common and often don't make sense to us in the moment, this is when we must surrender, and lean on our faith. We are not of his mind and we do not think like him and for as long as we insist on staying inside our box of what we think the twin flame should be, we will never see glory and we will never find truth.

This is a call to open your minds, your hearts, your souls. It is a call to think bigger than you ever have, to trust more than you ever have... to surrender.

I believe that the twin flame is a call to surrender. To live in it, swim in it, become it. It is not an easy thing, but in my experience, when you live in surrender, real magic happens. No, I am not with my twin, but I know my life and what is happening now, is more than I've ever seen. I can rise above things I never have been able to otherwise and there is more purpose in my every waking moment than ever before. These things matter to me. Every day I see and know that I've been blessed by this experience, even through the damage done, even though I've had to heal some very deep wounds and bear some very deep scars. To have learned to live this way, I am more now and I am capable now of achieving my purpose, writing stories with more depth and meaning, and of having great love in my own life. I was simply not ready for any of these things before Tony.

We must let go of our death grip desire for reunion. We are only harming ourselves, our partners, and the planet with that energy. We are the twin flames, we are special, designed to bring light and love to this world and we cannot do it from desperation, jealousy, selfishness, or depression. We must find the strength within us, not to carry on, but to surrender, right now, in this moment. Then you have to do it again and again. It does get easier, but it is something you must stay aware of.

I truly believe a life on the other side of this wall is a more beautiful, powerful place than you've ever seen. I believe that we are being called to this. I believe we have great purpose in this world and we are simply being prepared to accomplish it.

Will reunion ever come?

I don't think anyone can answer you there. Only those in the spiritual hold those answers, but in surrender, you can not only bear whatever will be, you can thrive in your life right now, without pain, and that to me is priceless.

Have heart twin flames, wherever you are on this journey, it has purpose. Don't let it take your life, release what must be released and walk into a life of acceptance and surrender and see what kind of change that brings you. My guess is, you'll start seeing miracles.